کیا اسلام کی یہ تعلیم ہے؟ کیا یہ سنت اور سیرت کا طریقہ ہے؟

ہم برداری کے باہر شادی نہیں کرتے۔ تمہیں ہماری مرضی ماننی پڑے گی ورنہ بیٹھی رہو!

کیا یہ دین ہے؟ کیا اسلام کی یہ تعلیم ہے؟ کیا یہ سنت اور سیرت کا طریقہ ہے؟

The deeply saddening part is, we have seen many religious families having this issue too. A deep rooted culture, taboo and stereotypes destroying lives of Millions of Youth.

کہاں ہیں دین کے داعی؟ جو رسومات اور ثقافتی بتوں کو توڑ دیں۔ دین کی تعلیم کا کیا فائدہ کہ آپ کی اولاد ہی تباہ ہو جائے؟

Our inbox has 1000s of cases where parents / familes don’t agree to HALAL Relationship just because the boy or the girl is not from their “Baradari (caste)”.

Mam… we both are deeply in love. Our parents know too. We want a Halal Relationship (Nikka) but my parents are not agreeing as they feel “rishta daroon main naak kat jayee ge out of family shadi karnay sey”.

پلیز ہیلپ کر دیں۔ کیا ہمارا دین یہ سکھاتا ہے؟ میری والدہ عالمہ بھی ہیں۔ والد دین دار ہیں۔ کہتے ہیں، تم ہماری ناک کٹوا دو گی۔ صرف برادری میں شادی ہو گی۔ بس!

Mam. I can’t live a happy relationship ever in my life if this is forced upon me. The boy earns well and well established. Family is ready to accept me as well happily but our RELATIVES (father’s side) are not agreeing.

1000s and 1000s of such cases where families destroy lives of children based on egos, cultures, taboos and family cults.

How can a “chahca or a Khala” decide a future of a boy or girl based on their likings and dislikings. Breaking Relationships within families if married out of Family? ALLAH Reham !!

Why can’t parents step up and take a stand for children? Why parent’s FORCE such marriages on children? Especially females ?

Why haven’t we learned SUNNAH & SEERAH of Marriages and Relationships.

Why the sub-continent cult in name of Deen is imposed on couples and the “rituals” take precedecd over DEEN, Values, Ethics and Morals.

May Allah guide all parents to follow real values, the sunnah and seerah of Relationships and make it easy for all children.

Our heart breaks hearing such stores. It’s too deeply painful & heartbreaking when we can’t even do something sitting miles away and parents NOT even listening to us.

Let’s break the chain of these cult culture and taboos. YOU be the change as a parent.

DUA for all couples, families and may Allah protect you all.