Depression Vs. Demotivation

Depression Vs. Demotivation ! These are two different things. Depression & Mental Health. What to do and Our Role? hashtag#TheCorporateCouple

إِنَّا ِلِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ.

Extremely sad & heartbreaking to imagine how hard it is for a parent to bear the loss of a young child. Burying a son with his own hands & than people commenting all sort of msgs.

May Allah grant Maulna Family sabr & bless the departed soul, forgive him, make his last journey the most peaceful & give him highest ranks in Jannah. Surely, ALLAH will NOT ask you for his aakhira, so keep your decrees with you and worry for your end.

We are no one to comment on anything else except for making Dua for the departed soul & dua of patience for the grieving family.

On a side note. Depression is a serious illness. MENTAL health is extremely important. PLEASE take it serious.

Being demotivated vs. depression are two entirely different things & don’t just tell any patient that your Emaan is weak, go pray namaz, read quran and do dua, you will be OK.

In reality, with such counselling, you are further aggregating & aggravating the issue and worsening the mental health while making them more hurt dragging them in a black hole. Telling them you are NOT a good muslim.

Depression is a disease like any other. When you have fever, flu or cough, you take medicine & make dua. Similarly, Depression needs treatment from Qualified doctors NOT online newbie e-counselors or young youth scholars on social media who recently seem to be expert in all matters of parenting, marriage counseling to islamic lectures on all topics. No no. Just pause !

Save yourself from such speakers. Motivation doesn’t resolve Depression nor does a dose of a spiritually enlightening lecture. STOP !

Let’s break this Taboo of consulting professional help via Psychologists and STOP defaming it or making it difficult for people already suffering by calling it… you going to “Pagloon Wala Doctor”. YOU are making it worse for the people already suffering depression & mental health issues.

I consult lot of females on “Marriage & Relationship” issues casuing severe mental trauma and health issues combined with Depression. The biggest issue, NO ONE including their HUBBY takes this matter serious. Nor does family (parents & immediate family members).

The “Mental Health” of a Couple together is also very important than anything else in a Marriage. That’s why working continuously on your relationship, learning relationship and continually seeking guidance to improve your MARRIAGE is key… yes the very KEY to your “Successful, Blissful, Joyful & Happy” Marriage.

Let us take Mental Health & Depression as a serious medical condition and like any other diseases which needs treatment.

May Allah bless all and get connected to right teachings of Deen to find peace, joy, happiness and solace in our lives especially Married lives.